What happened to our soul ?

As an African American as I get older, I started looking back to the state of us African Americans and ask my self what is happening to our soul ? I am talking about are one GOD and self respect of our ancestry and our roots.We have nothing to be ashamed of coming from Africa we were Kings and Queens before and if you believe we are King and Queens now. We just need to carry our-selves and  treat and talk to each other as Brothers and Sisters respectfully ! Also what I am about to say  I hope I do not offend anybody, is it me or do you see a lot of Sisters romantically involved with each other with one dressed as a guy ? Each to there own, we are all God"s children but please some one educate me, is it  because the failure or lack of Black men ? And what about the Sisters who have kids ? I bring these hot button issues up for us African Americans to communicate respectfully, because half of our prisons are still Black and the majority of our house holds are still single parents. These issues are not for us to point fingers at each other, just to understand each other and respect each other more so our children will grow up loving themselves and there fellow Brothers and Sisters. I think personally as a people we should sit our family down once a year and watch Roots, so we will not for get we are Kings and Queens, please if you like this pay it forward.